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You find that the wife becomes weaker in her iman and so her family becomes weak aswell, this you see in a family are not upon the correct aqida or have understood it. So we need to follow the sirat al Mustaqim, the straight path. Those who say, Allah is our Lord and then they are steadfast.. upon them descend the angels and say to them fear no grieve but receive glad tidings of jannah..
And we are your allies and friends in this world and we will be your allies and friends in the hereafter. And therein in jannah you will have all that you inner self desires.
Allah sends down His glad tidings to those who say, Allah is our Lord and then they are steadfast upon the sunnah. If you love Allah then follow the prophet alayhi salam and then Allah will love you. And you cannot understand this deen unless seeking knowledge of it. The way you look at this society, they have nothing to offer us and you have nothing to be envious of. Follow the sunnah and do not follow the desires of those who do not know, they cannoy avail you infront of Allah and they are the helpers of eachother. We dont follow the desires of the society, those who have no concern for the Allah, the Hereafter. When you saw the kuffar and wanted to look like, act like and be like them, then you should know that they can avail you nothing in the sight of Allah. As for those who follow the prophet, then they say, Out Lord is Allah and they have Istiqamah upon the religion and it is those whom the angels say, do not grieve, we are here to give you the glad tidings of jannah.
If you want Allah to Love you, protect you and be your friend, then you have no need to be like those who distance themselves from Allah subhanah. Yes, you will see things you will desire, people behaving in certain ways, people removing the islamic garments to fit in, And u think, why cannot i be like them? Its as Allah says interpretations, they cannot avail you infront of Allah.
Recognize that society is morally corrupt and that were you to follow it, it would take you to hellfire. And were u to follow it, you would corrupt yourself and your families. If we are not good examples then its bad enough that we ourselves are facing Allah with our evils, sins and our childrens evils because you were an evil example who did not guide them and take care of them.
Were you to hear the screaming of those who are being punished in the graves, then you would stop burying. The person who answers the question and the angel that comes with a iron rod that would be able to crush the mountains. You should be jealous with regard to your salafiyyah. You find our muslim women naked but dressed, increase in fornication which is a sign of the hour. The things we envy in the society around us is that which jumps from one thing to the other inorder to forget lifes meaning. We should be the ones that when the weak Muslims look at us they should want to think, i want to be like her. We should set examples for them and not let the societies do so. If your in that state imagine how your children will be in days, years to come if you set this example to them. If a society begins to fall apart then the generation that comes afterwards is worse than the time before just as the hadith.
If a sister calls and wants to talk to a sister who is knowledgeable, a rolemodel, then who should you direct this troubled girl to? If we dont have a community of sisters who are knowledgeable and thrustworthy then who?
If you have no shame, do as you please.
All of this world is a provision and a utility, and the best of the utilities of the earth is a righteous wife. So where is the righteousness now? The more you do righteous actions, the more youre raised in rank with Allah subhanah. How can you allow yourself to fall into a rutt and then become ingrained in that way, gentleness is not introduced into a matter except that it beautifies it. To not forbid evil or enjoin good will make societies defragment. Societies will collapse, so how will our children be raised and how will they be in this society? Be the best of the utilities of this world.
A heart that is thankful, a tongue that remembers Allah much and a believing wife that helps you in the Hereafter.
A Heart that is thankful for all that Allah has given you, children that you have who breath, eat, drink, have eyes and ears that Allah didnt take away from them. Allah gives you blessings, but do not take away them except for something that you did. 30 Years afther the prophets dead, the whole of the arabian peninsula belonged to the muslims. Are you the type fo wife who helps her husband in the affairs of the hereafter. The more righteous actions that you do, the more your iman increases. And this is the belief of Ahlussunnah wal djama.
Allah does not look at your forms, nor you colour, nor with regards to you weight. But rather Allah scans the hearts and the actions, this is what Allah looks towards. Your heart is going to be weak if your ilm is weak. The one who knows fears Allah more than the one who does not know. 55.45